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Requiem... A broken heart with a shattered mind

I was asked this question yesterday: How do you know when you like/love someone? As in how to differentiate between a friend and someone special.

I have always taken this as something so obvious, i was shocked to be asked such a question. Actually i dunno what's the real answer. I just answered: When you love someone, you will put him/her before yourself. Whatever you do, you will consider them first before you consider yourself.

But honestly, if you do love someone like that, you can get hurt very easily, especially if the person you love do not really love you the same way or worst, they actively do something you tell them not to do so (like kids always do).

About a week ago, talked to another friend of mine. She said she wished that she do not have a heart. Normally people who says that is because either they are actively being hurt or unintentionally actively hurting someone. For her case, it's the latter (Normally the ones that suffer the latter are girls and the former are normally guys, If the girls suffer due to the former reason, that's normally because their boyfriends have been cheating on them and they know it but they dun wish to say anything)

Sometimes I feel very disheartening sometimes. Whatever you do you thinking of that person and yet you have a heart for them to pierce all the time...

It always sound like a requiem. The expression of a broken heart with a shattered mind

- wilsonkwan

Like the phrase : "Whatever you do you thinking of that person and yet you have a heart for them to pierce all the time..."

You know what will be the outcome, but most of the time, you will just choose to "follow your heart" and let yourself got hurt.

Remember John Gray mentioned before: Man matures when he learns to give ; Women matures when she learns to accept.

Not sure whether is right or not, but for me, I'll do whatever I can to give that special person everything I can, unless she she specifically ordered me not to do anything for her. To me, she deserves all the little things that I do for her...

Just me.